How to be happy in life?​

Building great relationships leads to an amazing life!​

It’s the little things in life that nag at us that tears us apart.
Don’t let the little things get out of hand and destroy your
relationships.

Are you facing Relationship Problems?​

01.

Couples Problems​

Remember when you fell in love to your mate?

Do you long to have that relationship back once more?

Do you live in a loveless relationship?


02.

Wounds and Trauma

Is there some memory of some hurt in your life?

Do you often find yourself thinking about a past hurt?

Attached to every hurt or trauma, is a lie that you believe about yourself.

Would you like to be free from this?

03.

Addiction Issues​

Having issues with following through with what you say you will do?

Has “until death do us part” take on a new meaning?

Do you need help with unwanted addictive behaviors?

04.

Financial Issues​

Are you living month to month?

Is money stressing your marriage?

Can you survive a financial emergency?

If you had no debt, what would be different?

How I can help you be happier​

01.

Couples Solutions

All couples have will have problems from time to time. It’s called marriage. However, it’s how you handle your problems that makes the difference.
If you have had traditional counseling, the problem was the focus of your conversations. Did you know that the solution to your problem is not generally related to the problem. So why spend countless sessions diving deep into your past when the solution is in your present or future.
Focusing on the Solutions will train your mind to forward thinking. I help you experience the desired outcome you are hoping.

02.

Trauma
Solutions

The Solution Focused Brief Therapy is unique when it comes to trauma.
I can help you heal from your trauma without traumatizing our clients. This is why so many people prefer this approach.

Research has shown that nearly all people have experienced some type of trauma. Whether your trauma is big or small, your trauma is real to you. What we do different is we help you discover your inner hero.
We help you discover your resources, strength and resilience,

Your trauma doesn’t have to be the Kryptonite that takes your life away.

03.

Addiction
Solutions

There are numerous types of detrimental behaviors that can be harmful to oneself and others. These may include pornography, substance abuse, marijuana, anger, intimacy disorders, eating disorders, compulsive spending, and more.
If you or someone you know is being controlled by these unwanted behaviors, and traditional methods have been unsuccessful, perhaps focusing on the solution rather than the problem the answer.





04.

Financial Solutions

A 2023 survey conducted by Payroll.org highlighted that 78% of Americans live paycheck to paycheck.
Perhaps, what you need is a bit of assistance managing your finances. Allow a Dave Ramsey preferred financial coach guide you. I can teach you how to:
Maximize your dollars,
Pay off your credit cards,
Establish a healthy emergency fund. Save for your child’s college,
Pay off your mortgage,
Save for retirement.

Let me show you how.

Your Solution is Only
One Question Away

Phil Gage

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About Solution Focus Brief Therapy

I’m Phil Gage, a Certified Solution Focused Brief Therapy Coach & Sex Addiction Recovery Coach

Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a brief, outcome-oriented, and positive approach that helps my clients change by constructing solutions rather than focusing on problems. The term “brief” refers to the fact that the coach doesn’t waste time talking about the problems because the solutions are not usually related to the problem. Instead, time is better spent focusing on the solution, or your preferred outcome. The average session duration is 3 to 9 sessions depending on the person.
SFBT has been proven to be the fastest and most effective evidence-based modality for solving problems. Unlike traditional practices that focus on issues, SFBT helps clients discover their inner resources to achieve their desired outcomes.
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy is the fastest-growing modality thanks to Elliott Connie, who is my mentor. SFBT is known to be one of the most difficult modalities to master because transitioning from problem-focused to solution-focused can be very challenging for most counselors and therapists. This is why many therapists don’t practice SFBT, not to mention the fewer session per client. My practice is results oriented in the shortest amount of sessions possible. I use thoughtful questions throughout each session that encourage clients to search deep inside themselves to see how life could be in the absence of the problems that brought them to me. To learn more about SFBT, click on this button.

What Is Solution Focused Brief Therapy?

I’m Phil Gage, a Certified Solution Focused Brief Therapy Coach & Sex Addiction Recovery Coach

Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a brief, outcome-oriented, and positive approach that helps my clients change by constructing solutions rather than focusing on problems. The term “brief” refers to the fact that the coach doesn’t waste time talking about the problems because the solutions are not usually related to the problem. Instead, time is better spent focusing on the solution, and your preferred outcome. The average session duration is 3 to 9 sessions depending on the person, compared to months or years with traditional counseling. What difference would it make to you if you could get the outcome you want sooner than later?

SFBT has been proven to be the fastest and most effective, longest lasting, evidence-based modality for solving problems. Unlike traditional practices that focus on the problem, SFBT helps clients discover their inner resources to achieve their desired outcomes.
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy is the fastest-growing modality thanks to Elliott Connie, whom I have studied under. SFBT is known to be one of the most difficult modalities to master because transitioning from problem-focused to solution-focused can be very challenging for most counselors and therapists. This is why many counselors don’t practice SFBT, especially when considering the rapid recovery rate requires the professional to obtain more clients.

I use thoughtful questions throughout each session that encourage clients to search deep inside themselves to see how life could be in the absence of the problems that brought them to me. To learn more about SFBT, click on this button.

Support Groups

We have support groups for men and women

Conquer Series

For Men

Join over 2 million men worldwide who have found help and healing from sexual brokenness.

Warpath

For Men

Warpath is a 29-week support group that takes a deeper dive into winning the war over your sexual integrity.

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Wounded Hearts

For Women

If you have been betrayed by your partners infidelity or pornography. This group is for you.

Support Groups

Support groups for the sexually addicted and the betrayed spouse

Conquer Series
For Men

Have you have tried to quit before? Have you conceded that you will need help yet?
Come and join over 2 million men who have learned how to overcome their compulsive sexual behaviors by attending the Conquer Series. This is a 10-to-12-week support group that will introduce you to the healing process to find total freedom from your sexual addictions.

Warpath
For Men

War path is a continuation of the Conquer Series. It is an advanced 29-week support group that is designed to take you deeper into your recovery. You will learn more tools to find lasting freedom from your sexual addiction, learn how to help your wife heal from the betrayal trauma, and learn how to restore your marriage.


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Wounded Hearts
For Women

Have you been sexually betrayed by your partner? If your heart shattered? Do you feel that your life has just been turned up-side-down? Do you need someone to turn to?
Wounded Hearts is what you need. This support group, with like-minded women, will give you the strength and clarity of mind to put the pieces back in place so you can get your life back again.

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Ready To Transform Your Life?

Do you ever feel stuck in relationship?
Do you have resentments against someone?
Do you need to learn how to let go of the hurt someone caused you?
Do you have an addiction that you just can’t kick?
Have you experiences some type of trauma that you need help processing?