Hi, I'm Phil Gage, I live in Colorado and married to a wonderful wife since 1979. We have 2 lovely daughters and 2 son-in-laws. They have given us 4 Grand Children.

I am a Christian who believes that Jesus Christ was hung on a cross and died for my and your sins. He was buried in a tomb. By faith I believe on the 3rd day He arose for the grave and one day He is coming to take His people home.

Instead of diving into my past, I want to fast forward to why I because a recovery coach for men who have unwanted sexual compulsion. I have always had a passion to help others. Sometimes to a fault. I had several opportunities to help men with spiritual questions. I felt that this was something the Lord was using me for.

Wanting to do more, I started a small group of men at my Church on the subject of pornography. The first day of the men's group, to my amazement, I had 23 men attend the group. This study went into great depth on how to recover from porn addiction.

After my first group meeting, as I was packing up my study material, I discovered an note from one of the men who attended. Let's call him Joe. In the note Joe explained to me when he was 8, he stumbled upon a Playboy magazine along a path that cut through a field. He told me how mesmerized he was by the pictures. He was immediately hooked and couldn't stop thinking about it. Thirty-Five years later he was still in bondage. He was so excited that he found someone willing to take on this taboo subject and help him find freedom from his bondage.

This story is all too familiar. This is how most men started their addiction. They didn't go looking for it, but in their innocence, they found porn. This is just one of the many stories I have heard from the men I coach. Working with men and helping them find their own freedom is one of my greatest moments. Some of the men have been trapped for over 50 years and have now been set free.

I believe God has called me into this ministry. God has placed people in my path that helped me get my coaching business started. I became a Nationally Certified Recovery/Life Coach through The Addiction Academy. I furthered my training and studied under Dr. Doug Weiss at the American Association of Sex Addiction Therapy. Through this training and other continuing education courses I have gained the skills to help men find their freedom from the sexual bondage.

What started out as just helping porn addicts has grown into helping men with all types of unwanted sexual behaviors. I have helped men who have had affairs, men who struggle with lust and fantasy, men who visit strip clubs and massage parlors.

My wife, Abra, also works with the betrayed wives as a result of their addicted husbands. We both work with support groups and personal 1 on 1 coaching. We both are astonished and amazed to see how God is working through us to help others transform their lives. Oh, by the way, Joe found his freedom from his sexual addiction to pornography and you can too.

If you are struggling in this area of your life, I hope my story has encouraged you to seek help. Give us a call or use the contact form to schedule a free assessment of your unique situation. If you are tired of trying to stop on your own, I pray you drum up the courage to seek some help.

Jesus Christ is our Redeemer,

Phil Gage